Thursday, October 27, 2016

A starter to getting to know each other...

Hello! We don’t know each other yet, but we’re excited for the opportunity to try and change that. So a big thank you for taking the time to learn more about us and see if we’ll be a good fit for you and to be the adoptive parents of your child. We want to get to know you and build a relationship with one another.....so please feel free to ask us anything!

To get us started on the path of getting to know each other, we’re Jeremy and Kara Sabin. We’ve been married for 13 years and live in beautiful Salt Lake City, Utah. Our home is nestled near the mountains that is full of lakes, streams, hiking trails, and lots of places to have breakfast (mmmm, we love breakfast!).
We love to spend a lot of time in the outdoors, if we can’t get away from the house, we’re usually snuggled up on our deck. This is one of our favorite spots and where we spend lots of time enjoying some delicious coffee in the morning, reading a book, watching the wild birds from our many feeders, grilling with friends and family, or just hanging out relaxing at the end of the day. We love our home and how close it is to the mountains and local trails. We’ve also love that it’s so close to friends and family so it’s easy to get together and hang out.

Jeremy is usually out running on these mountain trails. He loves being able to run or quickly hike up to the top of local peaks to get the best possible view of the valleys in Utah. Recently he completed his first 50k Ultra Marathon and loved it, he's gearing up for his next one in Monument Valley, Utah in March.



Kara enjoys slowing things down a bit and getting out to hike on the trails, let’s be serious, it’s totally more of a nature walk most times. She finds it relaxing to walk through the wilderness and relish in the smell of fresh mountain air, to hear the flapping of the aspen leaves in the wind, and feel the warm sun seeping through the tall trees around her (mmmmm, so relaxing!). She finds it incredibly rewarding to discover new places and go slow enough to not get side aches every half mile as she works up to her goals.
We also love our home because of what’s inside- our pets. We love our little fur babies and can’t imagine life without their happy faces. Currently, we have 2 dogs and 1 cat.
Our oldest is our Cat, Smeegal, we have had him almost the entire time we have been married. He’s a slightly cross-eyed Red Point Siamese. Jeremy’s parents found him as a very small kitten roaming the streets and Kara begged Jeremy to keep him. He was a tiny flea ridden monster that had to get baths multiple times a week to get rid of them. He was so small that he used to crawl into Jeremy’s shoes after he got home and peek out like a little creeper waiting to attack you. Now, he’s our old man that sleeps in the sun most of the day. If you have a pillow on your lap, he’ll reach up and wave his arm at you so he can jump up and snuggle on it.


Our older dog Bella is a boxer mix and she’s our crazy fast runner. She loves going out with Jeremy on trail runs and only gets upset when he stops or isn’t going fast enough for her. She could spend hours standing in a stream or lake stomping at the water for unknown reasons to us. She has a kiddie pool just for her that sits on the deck and she just digs at the water happy as can be.
The youngest in our furry family is Obie, a Rhodesian Ridgeback mix that has a tail that never stops wagging. He is our big lazy baby boy. He loves people and gets so excited to see anyone, he can’t properly say hi though without going to get a toy in his mouth and a kidney bean dance. He can’t seem to go to sleep at night without snuggling up next to Jeremy in our bed, all while Kara gets kicked when he needs to stretch out more (he’s kind of a bed hog until he gets kicked out so we can get some sleep). He loves his treats and tosses them in the air, before pouncing to gobble them. His favorite treat ever is popcorn! He LOVES popcorn, he gets excited just hearing the popping in the microwave and can be a horrible beggar that you can’t resist because he’s so cute and so happy you have popcorn.

Jeremy talking about Kara
Kara and I met 16 years ago when she worked on the graveyard shift at a gas station across the street from my work. It wasn’t love at first sight for either of us, but there was definite interest in getting to know one another. I would walk across the road almost every night to get a drink and snacks on my break. We spent a lot of hours getting to know each other talking over the hot dog carousel. I may have spent a bit too much time over there, since I ended up getting fired for not being at work. It was worth it. Kara and I were married a few short years later.



Kara is going to be an amazing mother. She is one of the most caring and thoughtful people I know. She loves throwing parties (Halloween being one of her favorites) and making sure everyone is having the best time. Our kiddo is going to be the talk of the town with how amazing of birthday parties they will have. Kara also loves to do crafts with our nephews.  They will often come over and work on different painting projects, carving pumpkins making bath bombs, molding with clay, or teaching them how to make something yummy for dinner.

Kara talking about Jeremy
Well since Jeremy already told you how we met, I’ll fill in a little more detail. He used to come over to the gas station and harass me with his co-workers. Yep, they would pull shenanigans while I wasn’t looking. Some of them included stacking all of the 12-packs of soda to the ceiling where I could barely reach them and then leave. Once they cleared one of the freezer shelves and forced one of them to crawl in it to see how long they could last. Then something changed with a phone call one morning after work to see if I wanted to go to breakfast, our first date at the local Denny’s. Ahhhhh magic in the making!

We started dating and the shenanigans didn’t stop there either. On his 25th birthday, I thought I would do something extra special so I decorated his room and left a note on his bed that said, “dress in your very best dress because I’m taking you out on the town”. Ya...he took that a little too literal and when I showed up in my old prom dress with my hair and nails done, he too was also in a dress. Yep, an old black and white prom dress including clip on earrings, a black bandana, and his white tube socks. What a hottie! It was pretty hilarious and still brings a smile to my face. As you can hopefully tell, Jeremy has a great sense of humor and that’s one of the many qualities I love about him.
Jeremy is also an incredible supporter to dreams and goals. I decided I wanted to hike part of the Pacific Crest Trail in Oregon for a month and he stood by my side through the whole process. He put up with me throwing myself into research on gear and maps, dealt with me making the house smell like jerky for days, and then drove me out to my trailhead, kissed me goodbye, and sent me into the woods all alone. Well, a few days later when I just couldn’t do it all by myself, he drove back to get me when he was just two hours from home. So ya, he is my #1 supporter and amazes me with how he does it.
I know that without a doubt Jeremy will make an incredible daddy one day, not only will he keep pulling pranks and goofing around with a child, but he’ll be incredibly patient with them and try to help them accomplish anything. Jeremy loves reading and finding new science things to teach our nephews (if you don’t know what tardigrades are, look it up...they were a big hit with the kiddos!).

Us being potential parents
We are both very excited to become parents so we can pass along all the fun things that we enjoy in life, as well as help our future kiddo be the best person they can be. We can’t wait to support their hard work as they try to accomplish their goals,help them get the best education possible, and help them grow to be a kind, compassionate, and wonderful person.
Through our home study education, we've learned that an open adoption can be incredibly beneficial for a child, so it's important for us to get to know you as much as your comfortable with. We're open to discussing what this new type of relationship will look like and we look forward to getting to know more about you.